Monday, July 20, 2009

The Adoption Academy

I promise all of my blogging posts won't be about our newest endeavour, but since people have been asking me all sorts of questions, I thought I'd address them here. :-) Just trying to be resourceful and killing a few birds with one stone!

I guess with my last blog post it seemed as if we had called adoption agencies and are ready to dive in feet first. Unfortunately, that is not quite the case! We are still very much in the "figuring-it-all-out" stage. There is just so much to take in and process.

Sitting downstairs on my coffee table are five books about adoption...ranging from The Complete Idiot's Guide to Adoption to Adopting in America: How to Adopt Within One Year to Adoption: The Essential Guide to Adopting Quickly and Safely. Now, I haven't opened the books just yet (I only got them today) but I'm sure there's enough info in them to overwhelm anyone.

I happened to post a question on the Columbus online forum I'm a member of about adoption...I wanted to know if anyone has done adoption or knows of people who have adopted. I got some great responses, and quite a few girls suggested I look toward attending "The Adoption Academy". Basically the academy "helps take the mystery out of the adoption process." John and I will be taking two of their three tracks: The Core Track and The Domestic Track. The Core Track is the overview of adoption, affording adoption, info about the homestudy, and ends with a panel made up of parents and adoptees. The Domestic Track is the step-by-step process of finding the adoptive child, preparing for the child's arrival, open adoptions & cultural considerations, and adoption of children with special needs & another panel made up of parents and adoptees. The classes start in mid-September and go weekly into November (one night a week for two hours).

After we attend the Adoption Academy, John and I will take our official first step and call an agency. Until then, I plan on learning as much as I can about this process before it gets started!

13 comments:

Wendy said...

The Academy sounds like a really neat idea -- one place where you can get a lot of information. I also like that they have the panel of parents and adoptees. We really like the meetings where our agency invites parents, adoptees, and their birthparents. You leave there feeling so much more informed.

I know you already have a couple books to read, but if you want a couple more suggestions...we read: Adopting After Infertility and Dear Birthmother, too. They are both required reading (along with Launching Your Baby's Adoption) by our agency.

Kristi B said...

Hi, Kristen! I'm Kristi. I'm also a teacher and just beginning the adoption process. The Academy does sound great! I hope they provide everything to make you 100% sure in your decision. It wasn't too hard for my husband and I to make the decision b/c he's adopted. My in-laws are HUGE advocates of adoption. It only took two serious conversation with them to take the leap of faith and go with adoption over IVF w/egg donor.

I'd love for you to follow my blog as well. Your the first person I've found who's at the same stage as me in the adoption process. Good luck! I look forward to being a part of your journey!!

Emily said...

How exciting! Sounds like you are on the right track. I can't wait to follow this part of your journey...

Unknown said...

Wow, I really think that the Adoption Academy is a great thing for you guys! What a phenominal way to get answers and maybe just help putting the pieces together for the process. I hope that you keep Tom and I up to date with everything that's going on... you know I'd love to hear it from you first hand!!! :) xoxo

Aunt Nan said...

I hope and pray that the Adoption Academy answers all your questions, and gives you and John that glimmer of hope of holding that special little someone in your arms in the near future. I love you both!

Anonymous said...

We adopted our child in 2008. We were in the hospital room for the delivery and took our baby home from the hospital. These are a few of the amazing experiences you can have if you choose open adoption. We used the Independant Adoption Center. They have information sessions every month so that you can learn ALL about open adoption before you make your decision. Their website is www.adoptionhelp.org. Good luck and hopefully your adoption journey is a short one.

theworms said...

I love following your journey K and can't wait to learn all about the process, so write about whatever you want.
GL

Anonymous said...

The Adoption Academy sounds like a great way to start diving into the process. I wish you much luck on this journey. Always thinking about you guys. HUGS

J said...

Hey Kristen! I've been following your story on TTTC for the last few months and just wanted to say that I'm praying your adoption journey is a success and you will finally have the family you dream of.

Christi said...

so exciting!!!! I can't wait to hear more about it and follow your journey, I'm always here for you! (jumping up and down and doing a dance for you guys!!)

J said...

Hey Kristen, I nominated you for an award! Check out my latest post.

AsheAnn said...

I tagged an award for you on my page. Please check it out!

Tina said...

Adoption Academy sounds like a great idea.

((hugs))